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I don't know if I'm writing in the right place but here I go;
I published this question cause I want to know what you think especially parents.
Recently my mom and I encountered on a really important matter, something that bothers me a lot nowadays.
I'm 21 and I'm really close to my mom, we talk about everything and I
never disobeyed her in my life (by choice), this is how it was for ever.
I started dating recently, wasn't doing that before - a late bloomer/shy etc... so I never got to shock my mom "so to speak".
Anyway I have a boyfriend now and me and my mom are facing a problem in our way - first time that happening.
She doesn't want/allow me to return in the morning/next day home, it's
really inconvenient for me and I can't do anything to change her mind.
She is ok with me sleeping with him but she is not ok with me sleeping at his place till the morning.
She is also not ok with me being in a house with friends till the morning (this is not something I do or will do all the time).
She says that she can't stop worrying about me, can't sleep or close
her eyes if I'm not home (at night), she also says that if I come form
a good family then I shouldn't be doing those stuff, only families who
are "broken" allow or can't stop their children from wondering out side.
I gonna solve this problem by myself probably, chances are that I will do what she wants me, a mom is a mom and I love her.
I just want to know if you agree with her or me.
(I know this question will pop out so I will answer it now, I live in Israel [moved here when I was 3.5] and because it's Israel girls are obligated to serve in the army for 2 years, I completed my service 8 month ago and soon "October 18th" I will start my studies - college, meanwhile I work.
The army paid me somewhere around 110$ a month, so as you can see I'm only able to pay for my studies and help my family a bit but I can't move out and live on my own).
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